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Cant tell me he is not trying

Ice skating...no problem, but roller skating, Mommy help me!

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Simple idea to celebrate Valentines Day

A home cooked meal, candles, and just a few sweets to tell the special someone in your life that you love them.

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What are your Priorities?

"Most men have an insatiable desire for success, despite the fact that it is so ill-defined in our culture.  Too often it is equated with houses, cars, land, toys and money. Many men spend the vast majority of their lives climbing a ladder that never gets them to their desired destination -- fulfillment."  Ronnie W. Floyd

What are your priorities? As men we need to ensure we have our priorities in order. Many of us spend our time searching for fulfillment and success in various areas of our lives but, it seems to be an never ending struggle.  This is because our priorities are all mixed up.  

Here is something to think about!
When your priorities get out of order, it seems as if life is a series of continuous struggles.  These struggles are your warning signs that your priorities are not right; you need to change your focus.

In his book The Meaning of a Man, Ronnie W. Floyd says "having the right priorities is as important to your lives as blood is to our body".

Get your priorities in order!

The list below is my submission on what a man's priorities should look like:

1. GOD
2. FAMILY
3. COMMUNITY
4. WORK
5. PLAY

"..seek ye first the kingdom of heaven, all of these things will be added unto you".  Matthew 6:33

MAN UP!

Real Man Trait Number 1 : Your word is your Bond!

This is the most important message that you will ever learn as a man.  Chances are you've heard this before. So it will not be a new concept to you. The sooner you learn this lesson,   the less time you spend defending what you say, and spend more time actually saying it.  

By definition Man, is prone to getting his way by deception.  It is said that if  you come across a man of integrity, who follows through on his promises and speaks with truth and confidence, that that should be cherished.  Become a man of your integrity!

Have you ever taken the time to actually discover what this means?  We throw terms around like "I promise" or "That's my word",  but all too often promises are nothing more than just words. Each time a promise that has not been kept, your integrity degrades. 

On  your road to manhood, or to teach antother what the true meaning of manhood is.  Remember, if a man can't be held to his word, what good can he be.

“The most important persuasion tool you have in your entire arsenal is integrity.” John C. Maxwell

Sound Finacial Principles

As the economy is recovering, there is still some skepticism about how to move forward financially.  All over the world families are minimizing costs and increasing savings as well as paying down existing debt.  In a Black Enterprise Article, writer Glenn Townes give 10 principles to live by, as you strive to reach your financial goals.  These principles, may or may not fit your needs. But do not negate the fact that sound financial principles will dramatically improve your life. I urge you to do your own research and find the the principles that fit your life.  As the head of your household, your families financial well being should be one of your top priorities.  Men, especially, need to incorporate sound financial principles into their and their family's daily endeavors.

THE 10 WEALTH FOR LIFE PRINCIPLES (FROM BLACK ENTERPRISE March 2011)
1. Live within your means
2. Maximize you income potential through education and training
3. Effectively manage your budget credit, debt, and tax obligations.
4. Save at least 10% of your income
5. Use home ownership as a foundation for wealth building.
6.  Devise an investment plan for retirement needs and children's Education
7.  Ensure that your entire family adheres to sensible money management principles
8.  Support the creation and growth of minority owned businesses.
9.  Guarantee your wealth is passed on to future generations through proper insurance and estate planning.
10. Strengthen your community through Philanthropy


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Do you agree with these principles? Let me know what you think. Post your comments or questions here.

The simple things!

"Having fun with your family is better than anything in the world!" --Nalah M. Stokes Age 9--

The simple things can make all the difference.

Man up!